50 first dates: Digital marketing shouldn't be this bad

We’ve all been victims of bad digital marketing. It happens every day, on every publisher site.

You know the drill: you visit a site to browse a product. Let’s say, running shoes. You look at several pairs, including a blue pair of New Balances. It’s a model you’ve purchased before in their store but aren’t ready to buy again just yet.

Moments later, you see a different model, a red pair, in an advertisement. It’s a model you browsed but weren’t interested in at all. For the next 2–4 weeks, you’re stalked by those red running shoes.

Marketers spend billions of dollars to stalk consumers. It’s incredibly inefficient, and it’s detrimental to the brand by annoying, creeping out and pushing consumers to the competition.

It reminds me of the movie 50 First Dates. It's an oldie now, but never gets old. Drew Barrymore's character has no short-term memory, and every time she sees Adam Sandler's character, she starts all over by introducing herself.

When digital marketing is done well, it’s like having a meaningful conversation with a best friend. You know all about your friend, and your conversation picks up where you left off. In order to create these engagements, three fundamentals must be in place:

• We must recognize and speak to people as individuals; not cookies, segments or devices.
• We must maintain persistent and proactive dialogues, instead of reacting to single actions that customers take.
• We must accurately measure and iterate in real time, to assure the “best next” is always presented to their customers, and so they’re not reintroducing themselves again and again.

So why does most marketing feel like 50 First Dates? Because of three common mistakes that prevent you from delivering true one-to-one experiences.

1. Reliance on Point Solutions
Most brands rely on five or six point solutions, with separate vendors for data onboarding, audience building, cross-device recognition, dynamic creative, media buying and measurement. This leads to lack of scale, lack of real-time person-level execution, media inefficiency and flawed measurement.

2. Fractured Funnel
Many marketers treat the prospect/customer funnel in a very broken way. Top-of-funnel (acquisition) campaigns aren’t coordinated with the bottom (typically retargeting). The reality is, prospects and customers move around the funnel fluidly, and you should base your conversations on people’s current funnel status.

3. Channel-Centric, Not Consumer-Centric
Many marketers continue to budget for and treat mobile, social, video, display, email and search as separate line items. They think media channel first, rather than placing people at the center and calibrating for personal preferences, device, publisher and time of day.

So how do you fix this and have more meaningful conversations with everyone?

Focus on the following:

Matching: Does your current solution match people as real individuals, understanding all devices they use? Can you reach them across all publishers, at scale?
Profile: Do you know, in real time, what people browse and buy online—and offline? What videos they view? What emails they open? The places they’ve been (like your store)?
Creative and media buying: Are you dynamically personalizing creative for each individual, and are you buying media at the person level (not as a big cookie pool)?
Measurement: Can you measure incrementality across all buying channels (in-store, online, catalog, dealership, bank branch, etc.)?

If your current ad-tech solutions don’t reach people as individuals and own the chain of custody throughout the process, you’re likely giving your customers that 50 First Dates experience. There’s a better way to meaningful conversations. There’s a better way to relationship building, which ultimately translates into new customers and revenue growth.